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My husband is the same way.Even if they realize they're wrong, they can't admit it to us, can't get over their I. I also do not like to live in quarrels, so I try to smooth out all disputes, and if it comes to a quarrel, I always go first to reconcile.And you know: he once told me thanks that I am, because a man is difficult to make the first step, even if he is wrong.Of course men are different, but you and I got such, and still we love them! We have to be wise to keep the peace in the family. If you spend a long time in a depression from quarrels, you start to scroll through everything a thousand times in his head, to wind up too much, to continue to argue, to remember all the past wrongs, sometimes it can go so far that it is not possible to get out of it safely for the family relationship. Stay as you are and be happy! Happy New Year?
My husband is the same way.Even if they realize they are wrong, they can't admit it to us, they can't get over themselves. I also do not like to live in quarrels, so I try to smooth things over, and if it comes to a quarrel, I always go first to reconcile.And you know: he once told me thanks that I am, because a man is difficult to make the first step, even if he is wrong.Of course men are different, but you and I got such, and still we love them! We have to be wise to keep the peace in the family. If you spend a long time in a depression from quarrels, you start to scroll through everything a thousand times in his head, to wind up too much, to continue to argue, to remember all the past wrongs, sometimes it can go so far that it is not possible to get out of it safely for the family relationship. Stay as you are and be happy! Happy new year!
I won't go first, even if it's my fault.
worth it is worth it, not worth it is not worth it
If he's guilty, he'll know it and apologize first.
Definitely yes We men love that.
I think you should.
stupid women, I feel sorry for you! Pridefulness won't do you any good, ask my first ex-wife about it!
Of course you should.I am sure you will not regret it.And you should never think you should or should not if you miss him just go over there and tell him so.
come and make up, and then talk quietly, what is he, not a man or what? should understand! I usually go to my husband first, but I do not feel bad, even if he is guilty, because in his eyes I see great gratitude! man harder to admit their mistakes and ask forgiveness! I save him from this, but he also understand that he was at fault. in short, it is better not to quarrel!
I am similar to you only my hubby will never come up first and I always have to suck up because even if he is wrong - he will never admit it!
of course! He'll only be grateful!
I agree with the male part of the responses. I would like to add that female wisdom is the key to a successful marriage. The ability to be the first to reconcile is a show of strength of character. Even if you understand that the man is wrong. So flatter a man's ego and you will be rewarded tenfold.
I guess you've already read WHAT men have written to you HERE? Well, that's what they are in life and your spouse is NOT an exception. The longer you do this, the more insolent and selfish he will become, time after time. I've been through it all before: After living for over 20 years, I got separated, I was tired of telling myself that I constantly have to do something! You are a self-sufficient person and no worse than HIM, think and decide for yourself HOW you should behave. Good luck!