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How do I know what he's offended by? and got a better answer
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I'm going to be verbose, sorry in advance. 1. If he doesn't have time to communicate, that's a VERY good reason to think about the appropriateness of what's going on. 2. You can try to coin the phrase that in a couple one loves and the other allows himself to be loved. Your desire to get to the bottom of the tension in the relationship is as commendable as any desire for an open and sincere relationship. It's another thing if he, seeing your desire to go along with you, doesn't respond to it. Intentionally. This is where it's really hard to give advice. If you really believe in the guy, that he is reliable and suitable for you, then you shouldn't even ask anything here, decide for yourself, by your own feelings.
be verbose, sorry in advance. 1. If he doesn't have time to communicate, that's a VERY serious reason to think about the appropriateness of everything that's going on. 2. You can try to coin the phrase that in a couple one loves and the other allows himself to be loved. Your desire to get to the bottom of the tension in the relationship is as commendable as any desire for an open and sincere relationship. It's another thing if he, seeing your desire to go along with you, doesn't respond to it. Intentionally. This is where it's really hard to give advice. If you're really sure in the guy, that he's reliable and suitable for you, then you shouldn't even ask anything here, decide for yourself, by your own feelings.
Just to ask.
And you do not ask what's wrong, you ask: What did I did to you? And if he again will deny it, just go away for a while from him for a week or a month, but from outside it should seem that you have gone forever, then if something is in your relationship love, for example, he himself will come and apologize for the time he refused to make up or oblige. The main thing is confidence that everything will be okay! Good luck:
You can get mad at him for that.
Of course ask