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Ladies, can you please tell me if you made the decision to get married easily? and got a better answer
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I've been going at it for 3.5 years. Nothing has changed, or rather not worsened. It's still great. I think the recipe for a happy life is as follows: you leave with your loved one in another city, away from your parents and go through all the problems together. Before you get married you MUST live together for at least six months, since meeting with a guy in restaurants, bars, clubs, you will never know how he behaves in the morning, where he puts his socks, what his reaction to your face without makeup all weekend in a row, how he will talk to you after a hard day at work, etc.
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I've been going at it for three and a half years. Nothing has changed, or rather deteriorated. It's still great. I think the recipe for a happy life is to go with your loved one to another city, away from your parents and go through all the problems together. Before you get married you MUST live together for at least six months, since meeting with a guy in restaurants, bars, clubs, you will never know how he behaves in the morning, where he puts his socks, what his reaction to your face without makeup all weekend in a row, how he will talk to you after a hard day at work, etc .
I've been going at it for three and a half years. Nothing has changed, or rather deteriorated. It's still great. I think the recipe for a happy life is to go with your loved one to another city, away from your parents and go through all the problems together. Before you get married you MUST live together for at least six months, since meeting with a guy in restaurants, bars, clubs, you will never know how he behaves in the morning, where he puts his socks, what his reaction to your face without makeup all weekend in a row, how he will talk to you after a hard day at work, etc .
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haven't taken it yet I think it's easy Good luck
haven't taken it yet I think it's easy Good luck
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I'm 25 and I'm not getting married, I can't imagine myself as a married woman.
I'm 25 and I'm not getting married, I can't imagine myself as a married woman.
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Aha! I've already gone twice!
Aha! I've already gone twice!
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I didn't think for a long time, although we met in May and got married in September. It was such a crazy love that has lasted a year and a half now and God willing, it will last the rest of our lives! Courage!
I didn't think for a long time, although we met in May and got married in September. It was such a crazy love that has lasted a year and a half now and God willing, it will last the rest of our lives! Courage!
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I'm too young. I'm 10 years old.
I'm too young. I'm 10 years old.
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the first time I really wanted to get married. the second time I resisted till the last, but I was a coward and got married anyway
the first time I really wanted to get married. the second time I resisted till the last, but I was a coward and got married anyway
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It's easy to say I've changed, it's good to say I've changed in a good way
It's easy to say I've changed, it's good to say I've changed in a good way
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Took it easy, then regretted it hard.
Took it easy, then regretted it hard.
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It's a very difficult decision. You have to weigh all the pros and cons.You have to determine exactly whether you want to marry him. And even if you are in love up to your ears remember - with a sweetheart in the shawl, if the shawl a paradise!
It's a very difficult decision. You have to weigh all the pros and cons.You have to determine exactly whether you want to marry him. And even if you are in love up to your ears remember - with a sweetheart in the shawl, if the shawl a paradise!
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It wasn't easy, it was so hard to part with my freedom. But when I realized that marriage won't restrict me, I made up my mind. In general, I think it's more of a formality and a social necessity.
It wasn't easy, it was so hard to part with my freedom. But when I realized that marriage won't restrict me, I made up my mind. In general, I think it's more of a formality and a social necessity.
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And I really wanted to marry someone I'd been with for 18 years.
And I really wanted to marry someone I'd been with for 18 years.
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When you are ready to put on the same scales of freedom, taking care of children, washing socks, etc., and if you are not afraid of it, go ahead! It's good out there.
When you are ready to put on the same scales of freedom, taking care of children, washing socks, etc., and if you are not afraid of it, go ahead! It's good out there.
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It's not easy for me. I'm allergic. Even when I walk past a bridal salon, I get scared shitless.
It's not easy for me. I'm allergic. Even when I walk past a bridal salon, I get scared shitless.
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No, I still can't make up my mind.
No, I still can't make up my mind.
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You know, men these days are so frivolous - a few months after they meet, they call me to marry them. And it does not pull at all.And so - when I loved his man made me, I easily agreed. But then I just as easily said that later would be better. But he didn't want to do it later.
You know, men these days are so frivolous - a few months after they meet, they call me to marry them. And it does not pull at all.And so - when I loved his man made me, I easily agreed. But then I just as easily said that later would be better. But he didn't want to do it later.
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Easy. I lived for a year, got divorced, and then my life changed for the better.
Easy. I lived for a year, got divorced, and then my life changed for the better.
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Very easy! I wished for it! And I didn't even have to think about it! But then it's harder not to give up on it! I'm ALREADY succeeding!
Very easy! I wished for it! And I didn't even have to think about it! But then it's harder not to give up on it! I'm ALREADY succeeding!
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I agree, you have to live together for at least half a year before you get married. I was glad I was getting married; even though my mom was against it. The main thing in marriage - do not lose yourself and be able to balance: somewhere to give in, and somewhere - to insist on their own. All in all, 15 years, and I don't regret, well, almost:
I agree, you have to live together for at least half a year before you get married. I was glad I was getting married; even though my mom was against it. The main thing in marriage - do not lose yourself and be able to balance: somewhere to give in, and somewhere - to insist on their own. All in all, 15 years, and I don't regret, well, almost:
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They say you should get married as many times as you are offered.
They say you should get married as many times as you are offered.