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you're a fool, it's not your wife but your dream. Look for the problem in yourself.
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You fool, it's not your wife, it's your dream. Look for the problem in yourself.
You fool, it's not your wife, it's your dream. Look for the problem in yourself.
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divorce or get over it!
divorce or get over it!
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you have different temperaments. let her have a lover
you have different temperaments. let her have a lover
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Read the kama sutra with him or watch porn!
Read the kama sutra with him or watch porn!
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See a marriage counselor
See a marriage counselor
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We all go through periods like this, but they pass.
We all go through periods like this, but they pass.
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go to war? Just satisfy her in bed.
go to war? Just satisfy her in bed.
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a good lefty strengthens a marriage.
a good lefty strengthens a marriage.
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you're in trouble. I feel sorry for you. She's got a disease, so there's nothing you can do about it.
you're in trouble. I feel sorry for you. She's got a disease, so there's nothing you can do about it.
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let her try to find someone who can do it every half hour
let her try to find someone who can do it every half hour
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Does she love or say she loves? Or maybe your demands in bed are too high? Or maybe she is a cold woman in life and needs to be shaken up? What have you been doing so far? 12 years is not a pound of raisins!
Does she love or say she loves? Or maybe your demands in bed are too high? Or maybe she is a cold woman in life and needs to be shaken up? What have you been doing so far? 12 years is not a pound of raisins!
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well, you can try to solve the bedtime issue with a sexologist / sexopathologist The main thing is to establish a trusting relationship with his wife and convince her that just love for a normal life is not enough For 12 years, I think the bed has become a chore. Maybe you two should go somewhere to warm seas without kids and worries, rent a room for honeymoon?
well, you can try to solve the bedtime issue with a sexologist / sexopathologist The main thing is to establish a trusting relationship with his wife and convince her that just love for a normal life is not enough For 12 years, I think the bed has become a chore. Maybe you two should go somewhere to warm seas without kids and worries, rent a room for honeymoon?
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You have been together so long that you probably need to sit down and talk frankly about it.Maybe how to rebuild the relationship. See a therapist. Take a trip somewhere together. Get a change of scenery.
You have been together so long that you probably need to sit down and talk frankly about it.Maybe how to rebuild the relationship. See a therapist. Take a trip somewhere together. Get a change of scenery.
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you've known each other for 14 years, if you've lived together for 12 years, are you still embarrassed?
you've known each other for 14 years, if you've lived together for 12 years, are you still embarrassed?
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If I understand correctly, does she always want to? If she has an orgasm it's good, you just need to distract her with something - the energy has to go somewhere, maybe reconsider your diet to have less desires. If you like the process without orgasm, then you need to look for places and ways to have an orgasm, otherwise it will be endless. Have intimate gizmos - get them. And the best thing to do is to see a specialist doctor. Good luck.
If I understand correctly, does she always want to? If she has an orgasm it's good, you just need to distract her with something - the energy has to go somewhere, maybe reconsider your diet to have less desires. If you like the process without orgasm, then you need to look for places and ways to have an orgasm, otherwise it will be endless. Have intimate gizmos - get them. And the best thing to do is to see a specialist doctor. Good luck.
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Drunk with a female stimulant.maybe there will be a mutual understanding in bed.Or with a neighbor.
Drunk with a female stimulant.maybe there will be a mutual understanding in bed.Or with a neighbor.
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are no cold women, there are inept men!
are no cold women, there are inept men!
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You people got it wrong! In my opinion, he's the one who can't get enough sex. And she doesn't want to. What do you recommend? I don't know.
You people got it wrong! In my opinion, he's the one who can't get enough sex. And she doesn't want to. What do you recommend? I don't know.
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Andrew, in every family there are similar slumps in attraction to each other. You get divorced, start a new family and eventually you will face the same problem. Only the second wife you will mentally compare with the first. Statistically, men are more likely to regret breaking up with their first family, women less likely. I would advise you to sort yourself out. If possible, live separately. Convince your wife that you do not want to make hasty decisions, but you can not live like this anymore. Remember when you got married she was wanted and lived with you for more than a year and shared all that time with you not only happy moments. If you have already realized that you will never want your wife, your opinion may change greatly in 5 years! Offer a friendly relationship, explain that all civilized people after separation continue to take care of the child, who loves both parents and will never choose who is dearer to him! And most importantly, before you start all of this talking and acting, try to see this situation through your daughter's eyes - it's a huge blow to her. The child can cause irreparable emotional trauma. Try to act in such a way that your daughter is the least affected. If the problem only ends with your wife needing sex all the time - maybe she should get a job and then try to want it every half hour
Andrew, in every family there are similar slumps in attraction to each other. You get divorced, start a new family and eventually you will face the same problem. Only the second wife you will mentally compare with the first. Statistically, men are more likely to regret breaking up with their first family, women less likely. I would advise you to sort yourself out. If possible, live separately. Convince your wife that you do not want to make hasty decisions, but you can not live like this anymore. Remember when you got married she was wanted and lived with you for more than a year and shared all that time with you not only happy moments. If you have already realized that you will never want your wife, your opinion may change greatly in 5 years! Offer a friendly relationship, explain that all civilized people after separation continue to take care of the child, who loves both parents and will never choose who is dearer to him! And most importantly, before you start all of this talking and acting, try to see this situation through your daughter's eyes - it's a huge blow to her. The child can cause irreparable emotional trauma. Try to act in such a way that your daughter is the least affected. If the problem only ends with your wife needing sex all the time - maybe she should get a job and then try to want it every half hour
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The question is a little unclear. Does she love you every half hour? Does she want you as a man every half hour? Or does she explain her love every half hour? If it is about the bed, it seems that you have a different temperament.It is necessary to talk frankly.Explain that you do not want so often.Frankly this and not quite normal.Sounds like a disease.And it was all the years of your life together? Or only now, recently? Maybe you cheat on her? And so she wants to bore you so that forces were not to run away left?
The question is a little unclear. Does she love you every half hour? Does she want you as a man every half hour? Or does she explain her love every half hour? If it is about the bed, it seems that you have a different temperament.It is necessary to talk frankly.Explain that you do not want so often.Frankly this and not quite normal.Sounds like a disease.And it was all the years of your life together? Or only now, recently? Maybe you cheat on her? And so she wants to bore you so that forces were not to run away left?