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Are you happy with nice people? Then why do you tolerate bad people around you? Who taught you to tolerate bad people? and got a better answer
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I try not to clash with them, but get along peacefully, for my own good?
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I try not to clash with them, but get along peacefully, for my own good.
I try not to clash with them, but get along peacefully, for my own good.
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Sometimes the bad ones come to us themselves, which means that we need it for something. Sometimes we put up with them ourselves. I guess life hasn't taught us anything yet.
Sometimes the bad ones come to us themselves, which means that we need it for something. Sometimes we put up with them ourselves. I guess life hasn't taught us anything yet.
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Vitya, stirring up intolerance in people is not good. It's criminal, Vitya.
Vitya, stirring up intolerance in people is not good. It's criminal, Vitya.
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There are neither good nor bad on earth, there are happy and unhappy.
There are neither good nor bad on earth, there are happy and unhappy.
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You are surrounded by all the people you need. Whether they are good or bad is up to you.
You are surrounded by all the people you need. Whether they are good or bad is up to you.
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And how is it without the bad ones? It's like eating food without salt and pepper! You have to look at the bad ones from a different perspective, try to understand why they behave that way. Because if you look closely, suddenly it turns out that the bad ones are just straightforward and honest, and the good ones are flattering lying opportunists. We must look, maybe the bad ones have a defensive reaction to something. For example, we had a driver who was very mean, no one wanted to deal with him. I looked closely and understood that he had a problem with eyesight in one eye and he was afraid to lose his job and that is why he was nervous. I started insuring him a little on this side where he wasn't sure, telling him to get in the way, or it was okay, let's pass, or let's skip it. And he began to feel more confident, and I was able to work with him quite normally, without conflict.
And how is it without the bad ones? It's like eating food without salt and pepper! You have to look at the bad ones from a different perspective, try to understand why they behave that way. Because if you look closely, suddenly it turns out that the bad ones are just straightforward and honest, and the good ones are flattering lying opportunists. We must look, maybe the bad ones have a defensive reaction to something. For example, we had a driver who was very mean, no one wanted to deal with him. I looked closely and understood that he had a problem with eyesight in one eye and he was afraid to lose his job and that is why he was nervous. I started insuring him a little on this side where he wasn't sure, telling him to get in the way, or it was okay, let's pass, or let's skip it. And he began to feel more confident, and I was able to work with him quite normally, without conflict.
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Tact is a hallucinogenic, you don't have to take his example. It's better to think for yourself!
Tact is a hallucinogenic, you don't have to take his example. It's better to think for yourself!