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Daughter 12 years old does not want to live with me in Moscow, wants to live with her grandmother in the village on Sakhalin in a remote village? and got a better answer
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Eh. Such a little girl and already understands everything about Moscow?
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Eh. Such a little girl and already understands everything about Moscow.
Eh. Such a little girl and already understands everything about Moscow.
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let her live in Sakhalin for a while, then she won't have such thoughts
let her live in Sakhalin for a while, then she won't have such thoughts
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better out in nature, away from the temptations of the dirty city
better out in nature, away from the temptations of the dirty city
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that's her choice
that's her choice
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My daughter's right. Kids in general are better than us. Send.
My daughter's right. Kids in general are better than us. Send.
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This is a serious question. It's not about the child, it's about you. What could possibly have offended her?
This is a serious question. It's not about the child, it's about you. What could possibly have offended her?
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Probably she has any reasons, motives for that. it is necessary to find out and eliminate them I would take with myself to moscow in any case. I consider, that children should grow and be brought up with parents at the first stage it is necessary to give it maximum attention and care, to help get used to new school, to find new friends what there it will receive education? and in fact it is now important.
Probably she has any reasons, motives for that. it is necessary to find out and eliminate them I would take with myself to moscow in any case. I consider, that children should grow and be brought up with parents at the first stage it is necessary to give it maximum attention and care, to help get used to new school, to find new friends what there it will receive education? and in fact it is now important.
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she's not very sure of herself and afraid of change - pick her up and drag her to Moscow - you'll have to surprise her a lot of time. Let him immediately get used to Moscow than in perfect years narovlyaet and her head will demolish. Good luck.
she's not very sure of herself and afraid of change - pick her up and drag her to Moscow - you'll have to surprise her a lot of time. Let him immediately get used to Moscow than in perfect years narovlyaet and her head will demolish. Good luck.
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also want to go back to the village where I was born - Kavalerovo. It's nice there.
also want to go back to the village where I was born - Kavalerovo. It's nice there.
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Of course, it's not very good that a girl at puberty will live so far from her mother.At this age they really need to communicate with her mother.On the other hand, if there are good relations with her grandmother, so it may be good in nature.
Of course, it's not very good that a girl at puberty will live so far from her mother.At this age they really need to communicate with her mother.On the other hand, if there are good relations with her grandmother, so it may be good in nature.
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First of all I would deal with the issue of no place to live, ace who. For some reason your daughter does not want to live with her mother, this is the problem and it needs to be solved. I think it's not about Moscow or Sakhalin.
First of all I would deal with the issue of no place to live, ace who. For some reason your daughter does not want to live with her mother, this is the problem and it needs to be solved. I think it's not about Moscow or Sakhalin.
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it up to her.
it up to her.
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Find out if there is a young man she likes very much. They have very bright strong feelings at that age.
Find out if there is a young man she likes very much. They have very bright strong feelings at that age.
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So SHE is better off there. SHE feels comfortable there, SHE feels good. That's what you want for your daughter, isn't it? Of course it must be hard for you as a mother not to see your daughter for a long time, but you know she is happy there.
So SHE is better off there. SHE feels comfortable there, SHE feels good. That's what you want for your daughter, isn't it? Of course it must be hard for you as a mother not to see your daughter for a long time, but you know she is happy there.
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I also wanted to live with my grandmother in the Voronezh region, a deaf village, the locals flee from there, and I had to: but you're the mother, and you decide where the child will live, especially since she is 12, she will not go there herself, the man depends on you, tell her that when she turns 18 and is of age then she will decide where she will live and while she lives on your neck you decide that and how!
I also wanted to live with my grandmother in the Voronezh region, a deaf village, the locals flee from there, and I had to: but you're the mother, and you decide where the child will live, especially since she is 12, she will not go there herself, the man depends on you, tell her that when she turns 18 and is of age then she will decide where she will live and while she lives on your neck you decide that and how!