What should I do if my grandmother has a granddaughter of eight months?



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Did your grandmother need her daughter and her husband? If not, what's the question?

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to kill the grandmother:

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Grandma has her own life. And why do you think she should take an active part in her granddaughter's life? It's your child. You should push your grandmother less, and she'll do her part in her upbringing.

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Knock her teeth out:

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Don't do anything. The resentment won't go away. Just let it go, too. Your granddaughter will grow up and figure it out for herself. That's life. And people are different.

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It's a shame, that's understandable. But the child is yours, and you probably gave birth for yourself, not for your grandmother. What to do? Life presents us with such surprises sometimes. Get over it. Live your life, and your grandmother will be far away from you.

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time, she'll realize she has a granddaughter.

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forget about your grandmother!

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I have about the same situation, mine so even my grandson on his birthday did not wish him happy birthday. I just do it myself, congratulate her on all the holidays, but no more than that, no visits or anything. If necessary, she will take the initiative herself, and if it is not necessary, then nothing can be done.

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And we have a grandmother for 2 grandchildren. One great-grandmother for two great-grandchildren. And nothing - we live, and quite normally.

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ti dlja babuski rozala stoli?

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God! My daughter hasn't had a baby in six years. Expecting grandchildren for so many years now! Well, how not to love your blood? Nothing grow your own child of course, but I think the child also needs and undeniably grandmother's attention!

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There is a misconception that grandmothers love their grandchildren more than their children. But most grandmothers still dream of living a little for themselves and taking a break from their worries. Time will pass and she will communicate with her granddaughter. You just have to wait. And there is no need to score on your grandmother. She's old, and she needs to be taken care of sometimes, too.

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There are grandmothers like that. I know firsthand. Don't try to change things, you'll start making claims, it will be even worse. Can you manage on your own? God help you. Do not take it personally and do not be offended by the main thing that the child has a mommy and daddy.

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your grandmother has already raised her children and now has every right to live for herself! you shouldn't resent her!

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You know it's better to let it be that way. Than to have her come in here nagging to do you a favor-that's even worse.

 

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