How do we convince our spouse that we are ready to have a baby?



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How do we convince our spouse that we are ready to have a baby? and got a better answer

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Why persuade, then you put him before the fact

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You can't persuade him - he has to come to this decision himself, of course, together with you

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He has to figure out for himself that he's ready. Persuasion won't help!

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I think he ought to see it for himself.

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He's not ready if he has to be persuaded!

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They are afraid of this decision, he needs to be told when the baby is conceived, he will be happy. You will free him from a difficult choice. It's issues like this that a woman can say she decides for herself.

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If your spouse doesn't want to have a child with you, then alas, no offense, but she just does NOT LOVE you. Sad but true. If one loves someone, having a child is a natural desire, a natural instinct. Think about whether or not you want such a person.

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He's not ready to be a father, you're in serious trouble. You rushed to marry him.

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If your husband is young, you should have been prepared for this, if you are both still young, don't worry, it will work out.

 

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