The author posted a question in Dating, Love, Relationships
Why do people only see me as a mistress? and got a better answer
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You'd be surprised. But it's nice that you don't give in. If a guy is in a relationship or marriage, it's rare for a guy to seek a buddy relationship with a lady because he is in one. If a man has a strong ego, he takes her as a target when he sees no direct negative consequences from the action. Perhaps things will normalize when you marry or get engaged. The ring on your finger, is an indicator and sign to the man that you are in a relationship much less likely to get hit on
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There'd be something to be surprised about. However, it's nice that you don't give in. If a guy is in a relationship or marriage, a rare guy is looking for a buddy relationship with a lady because he is in one. If a man has a strong ego, he takes her as a target when he sees no direct negative consequences from the action. Perhaps things will normalize when you marry or get engaged. The ring on your finger, it's an indicator and sign to the man that you're in a relationship much less likely to get hit on
There'd be something to be surprised about. However, it's nice that you don't give in. If a guy is in a relationship or marriage, a rare guy is looking for a buddy relationship with a lady because he is in one. If a man has a strong ego, he takes her as a target when he sees no direct negative consequences from the action. Perhaps things will normalize when you marry or get engaged. The ring on your finger, it's an indicator and sign to the man that you're in a relationship much less likely to get hit on
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Apparently with you it is only comfortable to make love - and this is the main requirement for mistresses
Apparently with you it is only comfortable to make love - and this is the main requirement for mistresses
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should sharply tell them, I want to be officially married first, then a bed, then children. they will jump right away. many men just want SEX from a girl. very few normal guys who want a family. so they should not respond in a friendly way, but immediately reject them. You should not giggle with them. you should respond harshly. i want to get married, not be a whore. so ciao, baby, run to your wife and children, or i will call her and tell her how you want to have a mistress.
should sharply tell them, I want to be officially married first, then a bed, then children. they will jump right away. many men just want SEX from a girl. very few normal guys who want a family. so they should not respond in a friendly way, but immediately reject them. You should not giggle with them. you should respond harshly. i want to get married, not be a whore. so ciao, baby, run to your wife and children, or i will call her and tell her how you want to have a mistress.