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How do you know if he really loves you or is just dating for different purposes? and got a better answer
Response from Марина Соловьева[+++]
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Love, it is, probably, at all a myth. I've written about it before in my responses. But anyway, love doesn't exclude any other goals. First of all, think about what goals you are pursuing by dating him, apart from love itself. Think about whether you still want, for example, a family and children. Or maybe you just want to be a housewife in his cottage, which you like so much? Or do you just want sex? When you figure out your goals, it's time to ask him about his goals-it's likely that he'll give you an honest answer. Then you can compare them. The answer.and love should be felt. I think it is wrong, because it is not specified in what place it should be felt. I will say right away that the heart does not fit here - there are no sense organs and not even nerve endings in it. This answer will become clear in time and in principle is correct, but useless - when it becomes obvious, it may be too late.
Love, it is, probably, at all a myth. I've written about it before in my responses. But anyway, love doesn't exclude any other goals. First of all, think about what goals you are pursuing by dating him, apart from love itself. Think about whether you still want, for example, a family and children. Or maybe you just want to be a housewife in his cottage, which you like so much? Or do you just want sex? When you figure out your goals, it's time to ask him about his goals-it's likely that he'll give you an honest answer. Then you can compare them. The answer.and love should be felt. I think it is wrong, because it is not specified in what place it should be felt. I will say right away that the heart does not fit here - there are no sense organs and not even nerve endings in it. This answer will become clear in time and in principle is correct, but useless - when it becomes obvious, it may be too late.
Response from 0[+++++]
goals are different.and love should be felt.I guess.
goals are different.and love should be felt.I guess.
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That'll become clear in time.
That'll become clear in time.
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Then you'll understand everything in time.
Then you'll understand everything in time.
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try to deprive the different goals - then you'll see why
try to deprive the different goals - then you'll see why
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Tell him you're pregnant and see how he reacts. If he says he wants an abortion, etc., tell him to fuck off.
Tell him you're pregnant and see how he reacts. If he says he wants an abortion, etc., tell him to fuck off.
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If you don't feel love, you don't have it! And he's taking advantage of you!
If you don't feel love, you don't have it! And he's taking advantage of you!
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honey, you can't have a relationship without a purpose.
honey, you can't have a relationship without a purpose.
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have to sleep with him to give him the benefit of the doubt and then pay no attention to him if he cheats and tells everybody he slept with you, tell him he's lucky
have to sleep with him to give him the benefit of the doubt and then pay no attention to him if he cheats and tells everybody he slept with you, tell him he's lucky