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Man says he needs time to sort himself out. What's that supposed to mean? and got a better answer
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ouch. I don't think it's going to get any better:
ouch. I don't think it's going to get any better:
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Two options. 1. He's really confused and needs time to figure things out. 2 Maybe you're wrong and it's really about breaking up
Two options. 1. He's really confused and needs time to figure things out. 2 Maybe you're wrong and it's really about breaking up
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He's the one who's messing with your head, honey. Men don't need a lot of time to make a decision in terms of a personal relationship. It's either you love him or you don't love him. There's no third option.
He's the one who's messing with your head, honey. Men don't need a lot of time to make a decision in terms of a personal relationship. It's either you love him or you don't love him. There's no third option.
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I think you should draw a disappointing conclusion: if a man is asking for time to sort himself out, it most likely means that he hasn't decided whether he needs your relationship or not. Men usually say that in order to wait for time and to discourage unnecessary variants. Alas, it's true.
I think you should draw a disappointing conclusion: if a man is asking for time to sort himself out, it most likely means that he hasn't decided whether he needs your relationship or not. Men usually say that in order to wait for time and to discourage unnecessary variants. Alas, it's true.
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a ti zhdat cobiraeshcia!
a ti zhdat cobiraeshcia!
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means he'll be gone soon and he needs time to think about whether he should go or stay
means he'll be gone soon and he needs time to think about whether he should go or stay
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Unfortunately, this means he will be gone soon. He just wants to make it less painful this way.
Unfortunately, this means he will be gone soon. He just wants to make it less painful this way.
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had a similar situation. As a result the guy left me for someone else. The worst thing about this situation was that I was a passing fancy and she was the girl she loved. Two fronts, so to speak.
had a similar situation. As a result the guy left me for someone else. The worst thing about this situation was that I was a passing fancy and she was the girl she loved. Two fronts, so to speak.
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Kristina K. Well done. Sorting yourself out is a choice of options. It's more likely to be a disappointing choice for you - otherwise there's nothing to choose from and nothing to figure out about yourself.
Kristina K. Well done. Sorting yourself out is a choice of options. It's more likely to be a disappointing choice for you - otherwise there's nothing to choose from and nothing to figure out about yourself.
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Clearly your relationship is cracked but not shattered. You have time to take matters into your own hands. Subtly and delicately try to ask what he is not satisfied with what he wants to make adjustments. Explain that you love him, that he is the best in the world that you do not want to lose him. Try to diversify your intimate life think of something new.
Clearly your relationship is cracked but not shattered. You have time to take matters into your own hands. Subtly and delicately try to ask what he is not satisfied with what he wants to make adjustments. Explain that you love him, that he is the best in the world that you do not want to lose him. Try to diversify your intimate life think of something new.
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It's scientifically called going to the cave, he has to weigh it all up and figure it out for himself; and I don't even think it's about you, it's about him!
It's scientifically called going to the cave, he has to weigh it all up and figure it out for himself; and I don't even think it's about you, it's about him!
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In my opinion it is the only true variant - to go to the cave thank you Irina for he will understand that he needs you and will come back with a pure heart.
In my opinion it is the only true variant - to go to the cave thank you Irina for he will understand that he needs you and will come back with a pure heart.