The author posted a question in Family
to get a divorce or just not show up at home if wse fucked up? and got a better answer
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take the risk! or else at 60 you'll realize that life has passed you by-if he loves you, he'll change if not, the hell with him-at first it will be bad but then you'll think why the hell did you need it at all?
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take a risk! Otherwise, at 60 you'll realize that life has passed you by-if he loves you, he'll change if not, the hell with him-at first it will be bad, but then you'll think why the hell did you need it at all!
take a risk! Otherwise, at 60 you'll realize that life has passed you by-if he loves you, he'll change if not, the hell with him-at first it will be bad, but then you'll think why the hell did you need it at all!
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kick him out
kick him out
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Just find something to do, whether it's work, collecting, or a lover:
Just find something to do, whether it's work, collecting, or a lover:
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Work not allowed - nonsense - what are you from the East do not have the right of speech?
Work not allowed - nonsense - what are you from the East do not have the right of speech?
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I was the opposite! My husband didn't work and chased me to work.
I was the opposite! My husband didn't work and chased me to work.
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Who is he to forbid anything at all? He's not the only one who's got a lot going for him. Life's got a lot to give you, you want to take it?
Who is he to forbid anything at all? He's not the only one who's got a lot going for him. Life's got a lot to give you, you want to take it?
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you have kids? If not, get a divorce. He's possessive and a loner. You ought to get rid of him! He'll ruin you!
you have kids? If not, get a divorce. He's possessive and a loner. You ought to get rid of him! He'll ruin you!
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Spit on everything and everyone and do what you want! You're a person-
Spit on everything and everyone and do what you want! You're a person-
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Send him away!
Send him away!
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Go far, far away He'll miss you and look for you
Go far, far away He'll miss you and look for you
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What do you mean, he won't let you? Divorce is a no-brainer. If it suits you, you can go on living with him and not appear at home. It's not much of a choice, but it's there.
What do you mean, he won't let you? Divorce is a no-brainer. If it suits you, you can go on living with him and not appear at home. It's not much of a choice, but it's there.
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Your question did not sound good, but there is a way out of every situation, so wait, life itself will make its adjustments.
Your question did not sound good, but there is a way out of every situation, so wait, life itself will make its adjustments.
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Not showing up at home, in my opinion, will only make the situation worse. Then it's better to go to work and not be dependent on his handouts. If he gets excited, get a divorce, because I don't think it's going to get any better.
Not showing up at home, in my opinion, will only make the situation worse. Then it's better to go to work and not be dependent on his handouts. If he gets excited, get a divorce, because I don't think it's going to get any better.
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He must be jealous of you and have you given him a reason to be? Maybe he's afraid you'll find a replacement for him!
He must be jealous of you and have you given him a reason to be? Maybe he's afraid you'll find a replacement for him!
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Have you tried to find out why? I don't know why he won't let me, it's not right. Although I don't want my wife to work. I just don't think it's a woman's job to get money for the family:
Have you tried to find out why? I don't know why he won't let me, it's not right. Although I don't want my wife to work. I just don't think it's a woman's job to get money for the family:
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talk to your husband.
talk to your husband.
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I'm against divorce in principle. But if it's too bad, then yes. It's better to leave.
I'm against divorce in principle. But if it's too bad, then yes. It's better to leave.
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a dead end! Get a divorce and start over - work, another man.
a dead end! Get a divorce and start over - work, another man.
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haven't they looked for you with the police yet? fuck it all. no money, and you can't work. sad all this in this age. is it by any chance voluntary slavery? you need to fundamentally change your relationship, if he does not give in - then the only solution is divorce. you should have an opinion with which he simply must be considered. be firm in your arguments, and throw him the facts.
haven't they looked for you with the police yet? fuck it all. no money, and you can't work. sad all this in this age. is it by any chance voluntary slavery? you need to fundamentally change your relationship, if he does not give in - then the only solution is divorce. you should have an opinion with which he simply must be considered. be firm in your arguments, and throw him the facts.