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I encounter this problem almost daily. As a matter of fact, I have 2 of these problems, a son 15 and a daughter 12. The son has long since realized what dumb, shallow and nerdy people his hard fate has brought him into contact with, but doesn't always let us know due to general sensitivity. My daughter has not yet thought about it, but she can already guess the depths of the chasm that separates us. I sometimes have all sorts of bad desires during a showdown with the kids, such as pulling out, and that's it, but I hold back, I respect the rights of teenagers. In general, I hope that with age it will all fall into place, and I take solace in the wonderful statement of Mark Twain: When I was 14, I thought my father was a fool, but at 21 I realized that over the years the old man is much wiser So, brace yourself?
I face this problem almost daily. As a matter of fact, I have 2 such problems, a son 15 and a daughter 12. The son has long since realized what kind of dumbass short-sighted and nerdy people his hard fate has brought him into contact with, but doesn't always let us know because of his general sensitivity. My daughter has not yet thought about it, but she has already guessed the depth of the abyss that separates us. I sometimes have different bad desires during debates with children such as vydrat and all but I restrain myself respecting the rights of adolescents. I hope that everything will turn out well with age and I take solace in the wonderful statement of Mark Twain: When I was 14 I thought my father was a fool, but at 21 I realized that over the years the old man wised up.
She always has been and always will be.
but who hasn't dealt with it! the solution is for children to separate from their parents no later than 20 years of age. the problem has a place and is popularly discussed in systemic family psychotherapy.
Fathers and children is an eternal problem that will continue to exist
As I am an only child who was born at age 36. This in general is the age of the present and the age of the past: Psychologists say - either tortured by the love of the child or the demands. I have 2. And in fact you can not require a child to conform to some kind of their own idea of what it should be.
I face every day. the father of my child allows him everything the child is about 2 years old. including caprices and mischief. I try to fight peacefully. I think that the relationship should be respect and mutual understanding, and then there will be no problems.
Oh, we're in full swing. My son is 14 years old. Unfortunately a solution has not yet been found. We are in search mode. Good luck.
Everyone faces this problem to one degree or another!