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what to do if my wife is not interested in anything else but my savings? and got a better answer
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Sounds like she's worried about the future. Worse would be if your wife was spending your money is mania. Talk to your wife and try to find out what is she afraid of? If you're a businessman, it's likely she's afraid that if anything happens to you, what will happen to her. Maybe she thinks you have a mistress and your marriage is on the verge of divorce. If you listen to those who advise you to leave such a bad wife, then she was right and she was afraid for a reason. Yura, if you are asking the question just to make sure you were right in your decision to divorce your wife, then I can disappoint you that both parties are to blame for the divorce. You write that your wife has changed a lot. I'm sure you have changed as well. I guess it makes sense to see a psychologist instead of wandering around in the dark woods?
It sounds like she's worried about the future. Worse would be if your wife was spending your money is mania. Talk to your wife and try to find out what she is afraid of? If you're a businessman, it's likely she's afraid that if anything happens to you, what will happen to her. Maybe she thinks you have a mistress and your marriage is on the verge of divorce. If you listen to those who advise you to leave such a bad wife, then she was right and she was afraid for a reason. Yura, if you are asking the question just to make sure you were right in your decision to divorce your wife, then I can disappoint you that both parties are to blame for the divorce. You write that your wife has changed a lot. I'm sure you have changed as well. It probably makes sense to see a psychologist instead of wandering around in the dark woods.
Look for another wife! Sounds to me like this woman had other goals than to be a good wife to you.
Get her interested in the Internet! And see what she asks!
Why do you torment yourself? Yura, leave her and find a normal one, believe me there are normal girls who are not fixated on wealth and who can sincerely love. Find yourself such a girl. Good luck!
I have heard such things from many people, my husband became like that.I did not keep it up for a long time, though I lied for a long time.Still ended up running away.People become dependent on money and do not notice anything else in the circle.Whatever love you have, but it is stressful and strong. We should rejoice that we live, that there is love and family, but unfortunately not everyone appreciates it, and when they lose it, they understand that money is not the most important if they understand, and many start looking for another victim.To sit sweetly behind the back and do nothing.I feel sorry for such people.God help them.
Take all the money away from her!
She has not passed the ordeal of being rich! She has long known that it is not a good thing if it falls into the wrong hands, it is a test of our qualities and if she could not find interests for which money helps to develop, that is, money is a MONEY! But don't be in a hurry to give up and refuse, maybe she just needs help figuring it out! Find out what was in the family talk heart to heart because you have not lived together for nothing! I hope you will pass this test!
Make things worse. It'll be easier for you to get out of it. You can get rich later. Start spending money on a hobby. Tell her it's important to you and that you need it. And if she needs the money, let her earn it.
she was after the money, not you.