If a child asks questions that are embarrassing to answer, what should I do?



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The child probably doesn't know what should be ashamed and what shouldn't, so answer briefly and clearly, without blinking an eye, and so clearly that no more questions arise!

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The kid probably doesn't know what is to be ashamed of and what isn't, so answer briefly and clearly, without blinking an eye, and so clearly that no more questions arise!

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you can answer in other words

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Get out more or less gently. Or to say strictly that it's too early for you to know about it.

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write down which ones - it's more interesting to answer

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what are you doing here? eat the topic

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shame on anyone who has no brains.

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to answer! Otherwise, he'll piss you off. think about comparisons. not too harsh and not too vulgar.

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What have you done, if you are ashamed?

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there are no such questions. With a child you can agree on everything. And there are no vulgar words - there are vulgar thoughts.

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Then you have to ask yourself the question: Why are you ashamed to answer it?

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Change the subject of the conversation and that's it!

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Just say that it's unpleasant to talk about it.

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It depends on the age of the child, you have to tell it like it is sooner or later anyway.

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If you don't answer it yourself, others will! It is up to you to decide from whom your child will find out!

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You have to answer anyway, you can't change the subject or keep silent, what does it mean to be ashamed?

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As you know, there are no shameful questions, there are shameful answers. If the child is young, try to turn everything into a joke.

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It depends on what kind of questions they are. The main thing is to be calm. You should not show that you are ashamed, or he will be excessively curious about the subject of his interest. Explain everything as simply as possible. The more naturally you will behave, the faster the child will believe you and will not ask this question again.

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Answer for sure, it is your child, and all the information he is interested in should come from you. How you explain it to him, so he will imagine it. All children ask questions like this. My 3.5-year-old sonorous childish voice asked me in public transport, "Mom, does the driver have a penis? I blushed and remained silent; he repeated his question even louder. I remained silent again. Can you understand the confusion I was in? Some old man said, "Tell a mother to a child, what are you torturing him for? Well, I had to answer. It was the first time my son had asked the question in public. Over time, I realized that I had to answer right away.

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You need to talk to your child in a completely normal way. He himself is probably ashamed to ask you these questions, and if you are going to be uncertain your child may feel guilty about what he asked you. You need to calmly explain everything to him so that it completely quenches his interest. As a result, he will know that you can rely on you, you will always understand him.

 

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