What should I do?



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Response from Антон Владимирович[+++++]

Response from 0[+++++]
If you love the first one - make it work. It will be better.

Response from 0[+++]
First of all run away from the lazy man and at the expense of the well-to-do one, see for yourself.

Response from 0[+++++]
already got a lot of husbands, but you'll have to decide for yourself.

Response from 0[+]
you really loved me, you wouldn't think about it. But if you're thinking about it, choose a new one.

Response from 0[+++++]
It is impossible to correct people. You should take them for what they are. You should give up on the first one whether you will be with the second one or not.

Response from 0[+++++]
razberis v tom kogo ti deistvietelno lubish esli tebe blige pervii i on deistvitelno tebya lubit to radi tebya on poidet rabotat a esli ne poidet to uvi eto eshe ne ta lubov kotoruyu ti gdesh a esli tebe blige pervii to derzai

Response from 0[+++++]
listen to your heart. or put the question in front of you - either change or bye. habit is the biggest foolishness when you realize that he is not the one you need may be too late.

Response from 0[+++++]
Destiny really gives you a chance to make a choice which may affect your whole life. I hate lazy guys.

Response from 0[+++++]
No happiness with the first one, that's a 100 ! I learned the hard way - chase the lazy guys away! Think about the future - there will be kids, there will be fighting because of lack of money - things might work out with the second one if you're done with the first one - get rid of him and send him away= and for courage, make your fists and hint to the second one about your feelings - but you decide - Good Luck!

Response from 0[+++++]
how will it look? do not think about it at all how you will look is more important - how you will feel! three years - it's a long time and the fact that you continue to meet says something - that you both still good! he is not well provided and does not like to work - fixable but not easy at all! he may be personally happy with his current income? and he just has not thought yet that you personally - this situation does not suit you? imagine if he does not even realize that you are so worried and quite confused thinking about it!

Response from 0[++]
you love him. So you will have to work three jobs, undernourished, sleep deprived, but take care of his beloved. Although if you're thinking about it, and you accept the advances of another young man, my advice is to talk and not bother.

Response from 0[++]
the choice is yours.

Response from 0[++]
dump the old guy and politely go with the new guy and if the old guy is smart enough to get a job and try to win you back, you have to make up your mind!

Response from 0[+++++]
You should not have done all this for nothing, I mean the question. it will only help you psychologically. but if you choose one of the proposed options, then you will regret that you have not chosen because both good and bad will be in any case!

Response from 0[+++++]
Just break up with the first one and stay friends. Take a break from the male sex, and then if something flashes in the form of feelings you'll understand what you want!

Response from 0[+++++]
the first option - hopeless the second - yes, I think it is worth a try, not because the man is well off but because he is not hopeless

Response from 0[+++]
vtoroj, odnozna4no. v pervuju o4ered dumaj o sebe, a o tom, 4to podumajut drugie.eto ix problemy, mnogie budut govorit gadosti tolko iz-za zavisti, sama ubedilas, a tak esli vsex zhalet, prosto siadut tebe na 6eju. a s pervym ja 100% uverenna, 4to prosto privy4ka. ne bojsia ni4ego novogo. vse, 4to ne delaetsia, vse k lu46emu! derzaj!

Response from 0[++]
you've been given so much advice that all I can say is that it's your choice and it's for the best

Response from 0[+]
you have to look for a new option not like the second one and certainly not like the first one

Response from 0[+++++]
It seems to me that if he loved you as much as you love him seeing that you do not like his idleness he would change. And he is not going to do it as far as I know. So run away from him. All the more reason to doubt him! And the second may be quite a worthy substitute especially if uchuust rudiments of sympathy on your part if I understood correctly

 

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