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Advice! How do I let my parents know that I'm not a little girl anymore? and got a better answer
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It's hard to give advice when you don't know how old a person is when they realize they are adults. В 10, 13, 15? I wouldn't rush into adulthood if I knew that so much responsibility would pile up! And in order for adults not to bother you, you have to try as hard as you can to imagine yourself in their shoes. I agree that it is difficult, even impossible. Now that I am a mom and grandmother of three wonderful grandchildren, I so understand my mom! How I wish I could apologize to her for coming home a half hour later than I said I would, and now I know how scary it is when someone doesn't come home on time. Back then it seemed like, "So what, 30 minutes late! One thing I can say is that I have a responsibility to make sure they all study hard! You have to be able to keep your word - serious person! No matter how little time you have, find a way to take care of these very adult relatives, share the care of the house equally with all. Become a friend of your mom, let her in on your secrets - no more reliable friend than your mom! They love you! Try to understand them and you'll be happy! Will you tell me later how it turns out? Any luck?
It's hard to advise when you don't know how old you are when you realize you're an adult. В 10 13 15? I wouldn't have rushed into adulthood if I had known that so much responsibility would pile up! And in order for adults not to bother you, you should try as hard as you can to imagine yourself in their shoes. I agree that it is difficult, even impossible. Now that I am a mom and grandmother of three great grandchildren, I can so understand my mom! How I wish I could apologize to her for coming home a half hour later than I said I would, and now I know how scary it is when people don't come home on time. Back then it seemed like, "So what if I was 30 minutes late! One thing I can say - make sure they all study hard, there is responsibility! You must be able to keep your word, you're a serious person! No matter how little time you have, find a way to take care of these very adult relatives, share the housework equally with everyone. Become a friend of your mom, let her in on your secrets - no more reliable friend than your mom! They love you! Try to understand them and you'll be happy! Tell me later how it turns out! Good luck!
Give them a grandchild:
take them and tell them that.
Come on, just ignore them, they'll let it go
Start acting like a reasonable adult.
Make money and bring it home
Ignore it.Everyone has struggled with it.But parents will get to it sooner or later:
Act like an adult, not a child.
talk to them like an adult.
you just have to.wear boots with heels.
Get a job, become financially independent
coming to you with this question too! It's horrible! They'll be taking me by the hand soon! And I'm already 13!
And not small is how much?
Well for nothing, you'll always be their child.
Tell it to their face.
You should act like an adult and not take their advice as a lecture - that's the first sign that you still need to be supervised!
Not a little if and only if you live entirely at your own expense!
And that is not realistic and only depends on their character.
And I want to be small To be taken care of by somebody, and I just learn and spoil myself all day Don't be in a hurry to grow up.
I'm 28 now, but my father still thinks I'm a baby and is always teaching me. I was angry at first, we fought, then there was a period of ignoring. It's up to you what to do. The main thing is not to prove anything to anyone - no use, just a waste of nerves. Good luck!
Why are you in a hurry to grow up?