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How do I explain to a young man that learning and working are the most important things for us right now? and got a better answer
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I know what you mean! Our holding company was divided into two large companies, and now our work is in the toilet! I come home crawling at twelve o'clock, on Saturday I work until nine o'clock! I study all day on Sunday! No love life! My boyfriend has gone quiet, practically never calls or writes! When I ask him: Can we meet? He answers: You want to say that you have time for me! I understand he is offended, but it is not easy for me! In general, he does not understand me, and listen to me does not want! Our relationship is coming to an end! I lose everything, friends, loved one, relatives! I am studying at the 4th year of uni, working as an accountant! We have such problems that I am on edge every day, I lost 5 kg, instead of 50 now I weigh 45, everything hangs on me, and there is no time to buy myself new things! I think a person who has never experienced all the difficulties of work and study together! Never will understand! Good luck to you! Maybe you still can get through to him, he will understand you and everything will be fine!
I understand you very well! Our holding company was split into two large companies and now our workplace is in turmoil! I come home crawling at twelve o'clock, on Saturday I work till nine o'clock! I study all day on Sunday! No love life! My boyfriend has gone quiet, practically never calls or writes! When I ask him: Can we meet? He answers: You want to say that you have time for me! I understand he is offended, but it is not easy for me! In general, he does not understand me, and listen to me does not want! Our relationship is coming to an end! I lose everything, friends, loved one, relatives! I am studying at the 4th year of uni, working as an accountant! We have such problems that I am on edge every day, I lost 5 kg, instead of 50 now I weigh 45, everything hangs on me, and there is no time to buy myself new things! I think a person who has never experienced all the difficulties of work and study together! Never will understand! Good luck to you! Maybe you can still get through to him, he will understand you and everything will be fine!
No way! I also study and work and have almost no free time either! So... I'm sorry!
You can't explain it. And you can work all your life. You've got to combine the two. He's probably not getting enough sex. If you were alone with him at least a couple of times a week, I think he'd get over it. But I don't think he's satisfied. Or am I wrong?
So explain to him that if you do not work but only sit and look at each other then you money will not appear. And if you're thinking about a future together, you have to provide for it somehow.
If it's really YOUR boyfriend you can always find enough time for him because the main thing is to love each other and the rest will come by itself! And he has to work, not you.
Not until he figures it out