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how to understand this expression, what fear are we talking about? and got a better answer
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Fear cannot be supportive. It is human nature to be afraid of pain, and often, unconsciously, we project other people's pain onto ourselves, and the fear of it onto the one who is experiencing the pain. And we begin to feel pity, playing dushku. Pity is always humiliating, no matter what sweet sauce it is prepared with. Pity is a hidden form of aggression, by which we subtextually put ourselves in a knowingly higher position in relation to the object of pity Love is the true support?
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Fear can't be supportive. It is human nature to be afraid of pain, and often, unconsciously, we project someone else's pain onto ourselves, and the fear of it onto the one who is experiencing the pain. And we begin to feel pity, playing dushku. Pity is always humiliating, no matter what sweet sauce it is prepared with. Pity is a latent form of aggression, by which we subtextually place ourselves in a deliberately higher position in relation to the object of pity Love is the true support.
Fear can't be supportive. It is human nature to be afraid of pain, and often, unconsciously, we project someone else's pain onto ourselves, and the fear of it onto the one who is experiencing the pain. And we begin to feel pity, playing dushku. Pity is always humiliating, no matter what sweet sauce it is prepared with. Pity is a latent form of aggression, by which we subtextually place ourselves in a deliberately higher position in relation to the object of pity Love is the true support.
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bigger question is how to get rid of it.
bigger question is how to get rid of it.