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widower, raising my daughter, 7 years old does she need a mom if she doesn't talk about it we have a great relationship, no problems? and got a better answer
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sure you do?
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of course you do!
of course you do!
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Yes. But the mother, not the stepmother.
Yes. But the mother, not the stepmother.
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Of course she needs a mother, but does she need a stepmother?
Of course she needs a mother, but does she need a stepmother?
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she does.
she does.
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I think she does, but it is difficult to find a mother and not a stepmother who will love and protect you both
I think she does, but it is difficult to find a mother and not a stepmother who will love and protect you both
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not yet, but later not bad, if you have a friend who is a grown woman but not your woman just dad can not be a mother unfortunately. there will be things that require a woman's intervention
not yet, but later not bad, if you have a friend who is a grown woman but not your woman just dad can not be a mother unfortunately. there will be things that require a woman's intervention
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If you want a loved one, but do not go looking for someone for your daughter. It's good for you and it'll be good for her. And the fact that the child does not talk about something - is not an indicator. They don't realize it, they just take for granted what they're given in life, and they're happy about it. Our great teachers:
If you want a loved one, but do not go looking for someone for your daughter. It's good for you and it'll be good for her. And the fact that the child does not talk about something - is not an indicator. They don't realize it, they just take for granted what they're given in life, and they're happy about it. Our great teachers:
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Everybody needs a mother, especially a girl. What are you looking for a mother?
Everybody needs a mother, especially a girl. What are you looking for a mother?
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The child needs a mother in any case! And the fact that she doesn't talk about it is a consequence of the fact that she drives this desire very deep into the subconscious and then it can lead to very big psychological problems. If there is no way to give her a mother, then at least talk to her about it so that she can talk about it sincerely and more or less painlessly.
The child needs a mother in any case! And the fact that she doesn't talk about it is a consequence of the fact that she drives this desire very deep into the subconscious and then it can lead to very big psychological problems. If there is no way to give her a mother, then at least talk to her about it so that she can talk about it sincerely and more or less painlessly.
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any girl needs a mother. if you do not want her to be a man later. and then there are things that a girl can discuss only with her mother. no matter how good the relationship with her father may be
any girl needs a mother. if you do not want her to be a man later. and then there are things that a girl can discuss only with her mother. no matter how good the relationship with her father may be
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If you have a wonderful relationship she may not need it.
If you have a wonderful relationship she may not need it.
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She is sparing you because she does not talk about it. And later she will get jealous of you and is unlikely to let another woman into your life. Now is the best age - just as long as you are lucky to have a stepmother.
She is sparing you because she does not talk about it. And later she will get jealous of you and is unlikely to let another woman into your life. Now is the best age - just as long as you are lucky to have a stepmother.
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And you try to talk to the kids, because sometimes they'll tell you
And you try to talk to the kids, because sometimes they'll tell you
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Me and my brother's mother died when I was 10 years old. another woman simply was not perceived.A lot depends on how much the daughter remembers her mother and from this already look.And another thing if the wife can become at least a friend to begin with. A friend is a little loose, but I think I got the point.
Me and my brother's mother died when I was 10 years old. another woman simply was not perceived.A lot depends on how much the daughter remembers her mother and from this already look.And another thing if the wife can become at least a friend to begin with. A friend is a little loose, but I think I got the point.
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Alexander it's such a delicate question, your daughter probably not only needs a mother but you also need a beloved woman. you will not look for a good mother for her I think from my humble experience that time will decide everything and it becomes clear what is good and what is not very good for your family. probably only you can answer that. does your daughter have a godmother? she can give her a lot.
Alexander it's such a delicate question, your daughter probably not only needs a mother but you also need a beloved woman. you will not look for a good mother for her I think from my humble experience that time will decide everything and it becomes clear what is good and what is not very good for your family. probably only you can answer that. does your daughter have a godmother? she can give her a lot.
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think she does. And the lack of a mother is especially acute in adolescence. Of course it has to be a woman who is really ready to be a mother to someone else's child. And it's okay if she's not even like a mother, but like an older sister. I think you know yourself that the relationship they have to form a trusting and friendly. And you ask your daughter how she would perceive a new aunt in the house? And does she remember her mother? If you still want to build your life besides all before getting acquainted with a woman of your daughter I think you need to consult with a psychologist as the best way to do it Good luck to you that you really found her a good mother and a wife for herself.
think she does. And the lack of a mother is especially acute in adolescence. Of course it has to be a woman who is really ready to be a mother to someone else's child. And it's okay if she's not even like a mother, but like an older sister. I think you know yourself that the relationship they have to form a trusting and friendly. And you ask your daughter how she would perceive a new aunt in the house? And does she remember her mother? If you still want to build your life besides all before getting acquainted with a woman of your daughter I think you need to consult with a psychologist as the best way to do it Good luck to you that you really found her a good mother and a wife for herself.
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To tell you the truth, I'm a little late. If the girl was 3-5 years old it would have been painless. In your situation I think you need a woman who would gain your daughter's trust and accept her as her own.
To tell you the truth, I'm a little late. If the girl was 3-5 years old it would have been painless. In your situation I think you need a woman who would gain your daughter's trust and accept her as her own.
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There's no substitute for a mother. A new mother will try until she has a baby of her own. I'm against it.
There's no substitute for a mother. A new mother will try until she has a baby of her own. I'm against it.
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My daddy is a widower with three daughters, the oldest is 14, the middle one is 13, and the youngest is 3. And he raised us decently by himself with the help of his grandmother!
My daddy is a widower with three daughters, the oldest is 14, the middle one is 13, and the youngest is 3. And he raised us decently by himself with the help of his grandmother!
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Yes, you do. But you have to be serious about it. After all, you're not alone. You have a family - your little girl. And you have to take her into consideration.
Yes, you do. But you have to be serious about it. After all, you're not alone. You have a family - your little girl. And you have to take her into consideration.