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Vrag molodojenov svekrov ili tescha? and got a better answer
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Both.And in general, the enemy of newlyweds is the lack of a separate home.A terrible enemy.
Both.And in general, the enemy of newlyweds is the lack of a separate home.A terrible enemy.
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The enemy of the newlyweds is the impotence of the husband. Everything else you can survive:
The enemy of the newlyweds is the impotence of the husband. Everything else you can survive:
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It's better to live separately. And then there will be no enemies.
It's better to live separately. And then there will be no enemies.
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Lack of living space!
Lack of living space!
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Not always the opposite sometimes friend and helper
Not always the opposite sometimes friend and helper
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And it depends on who's lucky. Like my mom died, but my boyfriend says whatever she is, she's my mother and he'd be happy to see her as his mother-in-law, and his mom is also just a sweetheart so far. Who knows what will happen in the future though.
And it depends on who's lucky. Like my mom died, but my boyfriend says whatever she is, she's my mother and he'd be happy to see her as his mother-in-law, and his mom is also just a sweetheart so far. Who knows what will happen in the future though.
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I agree - the enemy of newlyweds is not having a corner of your own. Let it be a shack for rent in the absence of his own apartment, but it must be. Secondly, they are not the enemy, as long as you do not start telling them in detail that you have and how. I'm his mom the best girlfriend in the world because we do not live together, and he's my mom reason to think - well, this is the psychology of my mom - she did not want to deal with their lives, she prying into mine. And the enemy of newlyweds - lack of understanding and unpreparedness to live together. Here. Life kills everything if you don't set it up right from the beginning.
I agree - the enemy of newlyweds is not having a corner of your own. Let it be a shack for rent in the absence of his own apartment, but it must be. Secondly, they are not the enemy, as long as you do not start telling them in detail that you have and how. I'm his mom the best girlfriend in the world because we do not live together, and he's my mom reason to think - well, this is the psychology of my mom - she did not want to deal with their lives, she prying into mine. And the enemy of newlyweds - lack of understanding and unpreparedness to live together. Here. Life kills everything if you don't set it up right from the beginning.
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it depends on who lives closest to them.
it depends on who lives closest to them.
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parents should be loved and respected, but they should live in a neighboring area.
parents should be loved and respected, but they should live in a neighboring area.
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If only it were that simple. In fact, the newlyweds have no enemies except personal ones, and they each have their own. And there is no single enemy of the newlyweds, well maybe there is a certain bendybug god who is against marriage, but it's all mythology and prejudice. And everyone has difficulties along the way, and you can't do without them. It would be boring to live without difficulties, but that doesn't mean that you have to have adventures on your ass. So get on with your lives and multiply. Congratulations on your wedding!
If only it were that simple. In fact, the newlyweds have no enemies except personal ones, and they each have their own. And there is no single enemy of the newlyweds, well maybe there is a certain bendybug god who is against marriage, but it's all mythology and prejudice. And everyone has difficulties along the way, and you can't do without them. It would be boring to live without difficulties, but that doesn't mean that you have to have adventures on your ass. So get on with your lives and multiply. Congratulations on your wedding!
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main enemy of the young is inexperience and a lack of understanding of the motives that guide the mother-in-law and mother-in-law.Not the ability to forgive mistakes.Of course a separate apartment is good but it's not a panacea.Still, the ability to get along is more important.So look for your mistakes and you will be happy for many years to come.
main enemy of the young is inexperience and a lack of understanding of the motives that guide the mother-in-law and mother-in-law.Not the ability to forgive mistakes.Of course a separate apartment is good but it's not a panacea.Still, the ability to get along is more important.So look for your mistakes and you will be happy for many years to come.
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the enemies are fools and jealous people, and they can be not only mother-in-law but also father-in-law and father-in-law. Age, gender, and degree of kinship do not matter.
the enemies are fools and jealous people, and they can be not only mother-in-law but also father-in-law and father-in-law. Age, gender, and degree of kinship do not matter.
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They may be enemies to some, but there's no getting away from them. Even in Africa, they'll still be your parents. They're not your enemy at all.
They may be enemies to some, but there's no getting away from them. Even in Africa, they'll still be your parents. They're not your enemy at all.
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Both should not interfere then no one will become an enemy.
Both should not interfere then no one will become an enemy.
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The main thing is a good home, and then mother-in-law and mother-in-law are nice people.
The main thing is a good home, and then mother-in-law and mother-in-law are nice people.
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People are different. Situations are different, too. There are times when a mother-in-law or mother-in-law is better than a mother-in-law. My older sister's husband called me and, respectively, her mother, and my father-in-law by his first name and patronymic. In general, the worst beast is a father-in-law, especially if his daughter is his favorite.
People are different. Situations are different, too. There are times when a mother-in-law or mother-in-law is better than a mother-in-law. My older sister's husband called me and, respectively, her mother, and my father-in-law by his first name and patronymic. In general, the worst beast is a father-in-law, especially if his daughter is his favorite.
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This is nothing. I agree that in-laws and your parents are not such a threat to you as to call them the enemy! Maybe their mistake is that they have a different world from your father-child problem or they are trying to make up for their mistakes. It's just a personality problem. You have to be patient here. And for my own advice, be a crafty woman. Let them talk it out, but don't break yourself.
This is nothing. I agree that in-laws and your parents are not such a threat to you as to call them the enemy! Maybe their mistake is that they have a different world from your father-child problem or they are trying to make up for their mistakes. It's just a personality problem. You have to be patient here. And for my own advice, be a crafty woman. Let them talk it out, but don't break yourself.
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we have in all senses enemy number one is my mother-in-law and my husband and I are all screwed up.but our mother-in-law is wonderful
we have in all senses enemy number one is my mother-in-law and my husband and I are all screwed up.but our mother-in-law is wonderful