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Parenting problem, what to do? and got a better answer
Response from Антон Владимирович[+++++]
Try not to get particularly turned on by mom's words Try to gently lead her to the idea that people don't have to be the same and that you like looking and acting that way better?
Try not to get especially turned on by mom's words Try to gently lead her to the idea that people don't have to be the same and that you like the way you look and behave better.
Do what you like and prove yourself right!
listen to your mother. a girl should be feminine.
Solve the problem.
Seek a compromise is important in a mature way.
I didn't color my eyelashes till I was 20 and I bought my first lipstick when I was 30 and didn't use it. No one really made me do it. Fuck everybody and do whatever you want.
Your mom's a lucky girl, but you could do her a favor. You could give her some eyelashes and lipstick and no foundation at all.
You should not be so annoyed, mom is entitled to her opinion. A person changes with age, tastes, habits, desires, goals and you will change too. You just do not agree in views, learn to find common ground, make concessions and compromises. You have to respect each other's opinion, if you do not respect others, you will not be respected. Explain to your mom calmly why you like it, don't whine, don't yell and swear, behave like an adultTo do everything with people the way you want them to do with you
Look for compromise. Mom is voicing her opinion and trying to make you better, not worse. And listening to her is your responsibility. So if you do not like something, try to talk quietly and find an option that will suit both of you, albeit to a lesser extent than each wanted to initially. Half the time all problems are solved by having a calm, unprovoking conversation and having the child remind his parents more often that he loves them and understands their worries about him.
Looks like you're a kid. A future foxbug. Or mistress.
Why are you so jumpy: there's no problem, mom's just giving her opinion. Why does everyone have to be like you, and if they're not, then they immediately piss you off: