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I have mentally outgrown my husband. But I do not want to split up, there is a lot of bonding. What to do? and got a better answer
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If you are a smart girl, good for you! Do you love your husband and don't want to break up? Make sure that he does not notice your superiority over himself. Make smart decisions as if it were his idea, really do not get carried away, and he will think that you are stupid and can not offer anything clever. Share with him interesting information, interest magazines and books that you read, drag him to museums and movies. Any person can be interested even in the things that he does not care about. What's the key?
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If you're a smart girl - good for you! Do you love your husband and don't want to break up? Make it so that he doesn't notice your superiority over him. Make clever decisions as if it were his idea, but do not get carried away, and he will think that you are stupid and can not offer anything clever. Share with him interesting information, interest magazines and books that you read, drag him to museums and movies. Any person can be interested even in the things that he is absolutely uninterested. The main thing is to find an approach.
If you're a smart girl - good for you! Do you love your husband and don't want to break up? Make it so that he doesn't notice your superiority over him. Make clever decisions as if it were his idea, but do not get carried away, and he will think that you are stupid and can not offer anything clever. Share with him interesting information, interest magazines and books that you read, drag him to museums and movies. Any person can be interested even in the things that he is absolutely uninterested. The main thing is to find an approach.
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Keep it simple
Keep it simple
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Don't be clever. Be wiser, what are you.
Don't be clever. Be wiser, what are you.
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Are you sure about that. Do you have a certificate?
Are you sure about that. Do you have a certificate?
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develop cunning and don't show cleverness
develop cunning and don't show cleverness
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be a little easier yourself, relax, you're not on the exam and slowly nurture your husband mentally, let him grow up to your level or even higher:0
be a little easier yourself, relax, you're not on the exam and slowly nurture your husband mentally, let him grow up to your level or even higher:0
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To bring your husband up to his level
To bring your husband up to his level
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Maintain personal autonomy.
Maintain personal autonomy.
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Don't split up, since you have mentally outgrown it, so be above what you would leave!
Don't split up, since you have mentally outgrown it, so be above what you would leave!
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You and your husband, you say correctly, have a lot in common. what does it have to do with who is smarter-who is stupider? that's another matter entirely.
You and your husband, you say correctly, have a lot in common. what does it have to do with who is smarter-who is stupider? that's another matter entirely.
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Degenerate.
Degenerate.
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you were smart, you wouldn't be asking questions like that.
you were smart, you wouldn't be asking questions like that.
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know what the best part is? HE THINKS EXACTLY THE SAME--
know what the best part is? HE THINKS EXACTLY THE SAME--
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Might change friends, company for more intellectuals, sling books or have friends of his own
Might change friends, company for more intellectuals, sling books or have friends of his own
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Hell, the more intelligent a woman is, the less men like it. But you don't want to play dumb, but you have to.
Hell, the more intelligent a woman is, the less men like it. But you don't want to play dumb, but you have to.
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To define your system of values.
To define your system of values.
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find what you will connect eg - fishing chess hiking dog baby. ie - shared interests
find what you will connect eg - fishing chess hiking dog baby. ie - shared interests
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If a question of divorce has arisen in your mind, it will later turn into a quarrel because there is no concept of love
If a question of divorce has arisen in your mind, it will later turn into a quarrel because there is no concept of love
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your husband. No matter how different were not a man and a woman in the end a man always turns out to be on the level of a woman. The main thing to calmly unobtrusively bend your line.
your husband. No matter how different were not a man and a woman in the end a man always turns out to be on the level of a woman. The main thing to calmly unobtrusively bend your line.
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In marriage, this boundary should be erased for you on the contrary. Is it really so much overgrown, or is it just a big ego? On the other hand he also knows something that you do not know and never will know such as good at cars and computers. Let's say I'm solving higher mathematics for students and in my time I've read a decent number of classics. My husband does not suffer from it. As for literature, he either prefers martial arts books with health-improving effect, or books on managing people. I am not interested in it at all, but we always exchange opinions with pleasure. It's always possible to find something to learn from a man. If you have ceased to respect him because of it, then parting only can you find a pair for yourself?
In marriage, this boundary should be erased for you on the contrary. Is it really so much overgrown, or is it just a big ego? On the other hand he also knows something that you do not know and never will know such as good at cars and computers. Let's say I'm solving higher mathematics for students and in my time I've read a decent number of classics. My husband does not suffer from it. As for literature, he either prefers martial arts books with health-improving effect, or books on managing people. I am not interested in it at all, but we always exchange opinions with pleasure. It's always possible to find something to learn from a man. If you have ceased to respect him because of it, then parting only can you find a pair for yourself?