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Would I forgive cheating if I wasn't in love? and got a better answer
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Forgive means to say - okay, go on walking, I'll forgive everything. Maybe you have a different attitude to the fact, and whether it is proved, this betrayal? There are many questions, and not one answer will do you any good, if you need it. It must be answered by the Soul, the command will be given by the Brain. And the decision will be irreversible. As a child I was looked after by a family, where my mother gave me if the kindergarten was closed for some quarantine or preventive care. There was a girl Olya in that family, who naturally married Vladimir and bore him a son. Vovochka's weak-willed family was dead set against her and he kicked her out with the baby back to her parents. The reason seems to be jealousy. So every night he used to wander outside her house and howl in annoyance that by that time she had gotten back together with another man Sergei. Maybe she found Sergei to shut herself off from Vladimir. But she admitted to me that she would love Vova forever! Sergei obviously did not like the situation, and he quite reasonably asked to cut the knot. Olya decided everything for everyone - she threw herself under a train. An interesting story? The tragedy happened only because of a man's stupidity.
To forgive means to say, "Fine, go ahead, I'll forgive you. Maybe take a different attitude to the fact, and whether it is proved, this treason? There are many questions, and not one answer will do you any good, if you need it. It must be answered by the Soul, the command will be given by the Brain. And the decision will be irreversible. As a child I was looked after by a family, where my mother gave me if the kindergarten was closed for some quarantine or preventive care. There was a girl Olya in that family, who naturally married Vladimir and bore him a son. Vovochka's weak-willed family was dead set against her and he kicked her out with the baby back to her parents. The reason seems to be jealousy. So every night he used to wander outside her house and howl in annoyance that by that time she had gotten back together with another man Sergei. Maybe she found Sergei to shut herself off from Vladimir. But she admitted to me that she would love Vova forever! Sergei obviously did not like the situation, and he quite reasonably asked to cut the knot. Olya decided everything for everyone - she threw herself under a train. An interesting story? The tragedy happened only because of a man's stupidity.
if you love her, you'll forgive her. I have forgiven.
If I did not love, I would not have had such thoughts in my head.
is possible to forgive cheating, all the more if it is not the first time: but it is difficult to forgive for the first time. but it is possible to enjoy a nice time, so to say.
It depends on how you love
I forgave. He confessed because he always tells the truth. It was painful but I always say: better a bitter truth than a sweet lie.