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When a woman wants a baby do they roughly understand that her life will change drastically after giving birth? and got a better answer
Response from Антон Владимирович[+++++]
Response from 0[+++++]
When a woman wants to have a child, all difficulties are pushed far away in her mind! It's nature's way of doing things.
When a woman wants to have a child, all difficulties are pushed far away in her mind! It's nature's way of doing things.
Response from 0[+++++]
If a woman does not want to have children, she wants to live for herself. Can you call this a life?
If a woman does not want to have children, she wants to live for herself. Can you call this a life?
Response from 0[+++++]
She may not want to at all. That's okay.
She may not want to at all. That's okay.
Response from 0[+++++]
Of course there are things that cannot be fully imagined and a woman cannot know everything ahead of time. In a good way the decision to give birth should be weighted with the examples of her sisters or friends who have given birth in front of her, but there is rarely a full understanding. It remains to hope that the joy of having a child in the family will outweigh the loss of former hobbies, and she will find herself in a new role. And of course having decided to have children one must understand that life changes forever from now on.
Of course there are things that cannot be fully imagined and a woman cannot know everything ahead of time. In a good way the decision to give birth should be weighted with the examples of her sisters or friends who have given birth in front of her, but there is rarely a full understanding. It remains to hope that the joy of having a child in the family will outweigh the loss of former hobbies, and she will find herself in a new role. And of course having decided to have children one must understand that life changes forever from now on.
Response from 0[+++++]
and I was bored. but that doesn't mean I didn't want and don't want to have a baby. and after babysitting your friend you don't understand what it means to have your own baby
and I was bored. but that doesn't mean I didn't want and don't want to have a baby. and after babysitting your friend you don't understand what it means to have your own baby
Response from 0[+++++]
It's really quite monotonous sleepless and physically hard even knowing that you can't prepare for it:
It's really quite monotonous sleepless and physically hard even knowing that you can't prepare for it:
Response from 0[+++++]
The monotony of those who want it. I wouldn't say my life has drastically changed since having kids. It certainly hasn't been boring.
The monotony of those who want it. I wouldn't say my life has drastically changed since having kids. It certainly hasn't been boring.
Response from 0[+++++]
It can be boring at work, too, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't work.
It can be boring at work, too, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't work.
Response from 0[+++++]
If women were aware of all the consequences many would remain childless. So some daydreaming is good for moms-to-be.
If women were aware of all the consequences many would remain childless. So some daydreaming is good for moms-to-be.
Response from 0[+++++]
You're right to write that, but that's not where you're writing about it. Childless people don't come here and read this. How can you assume what will happen? If you have no idea what to assume? I wonder what kind of woman would give her girlfriend her baby to make her feel like a mother? Yes, nowadays most women don't hold a baby for the first time until after they've delivered it themselves. Weren't you? I was. How can you judge?
You're right to write that, but that's not where you're writing about it. Childless people don't come here and read this. How can you assume what will happen? If you have no idea what to assume? I wonder what kind of woman would give her girlfriend her baby to make her feel like a mother? Yes, nowadays most women don't hold a baby for the first time until after they've delivered it themselves. Weren't you? I was. How can you judge?
Response from 0[+++++]
Instinct, + society, relatives pushing.
Instinct, + society, relatives pushing.